 Listen to your senses
One of the most important tips to comply with safety in online dating is your confidence in your own instincts. This is true for telephone conversation, correspondence with the chat, to communicate by video link or personal communication. Nature has created a human instinct as "an early warning system" that can save you from many troubles. If someone says or does so, as you do not like, it's probably a sign of trouble. Pay attention to the lies in communication, the strangeness of behavior or risky circumstances goodbye. If you feel unsure or threatened by you, give up the visits.
With online dating - keep your secrets
Never give out your real full name, address, phone number or place of employment on the Internet. Report only your first name or nickname as your full name and city of residence is enough to know your home address, telephone number, names of family members and other vital information. Also, you should be very careful with the information that you will be placed in different social networking sites because social networking is the first place to turn those people who want to know anything about you. It might be your potential employers, so never publish information that could compromise you. Remember, FaceBook and other social networking sites always offer some mechanisms to protect your sensitive data - do not forget to use them, or ask more experienced users help you.
At the same time, when you try not to tell the really important information, you should not forget that we always have to be honest. If you see that someone is trying to get information from you more than he should know this may be a signal to stop communicating. For a polite refusal, you can say: "I do not think it would be a good idea to tell all now. Perhaps we should be closer to know each other.." Your caller must understand you and to stop their attempts to extract important information from you. If not, then it is time to stop communicating.
If you are going to communicate on the Internet, it is best for these purposes to use anonymous mailboxes, which are very much on the Internet. You can choose among many providers: Google, Yandex, Yahoo, Mail.com etc. For your convenience, your user name in these email services can be similar to your real first name, add a small add-ons: Alex2000, Juliet99 etc. Don't forget to organize the forwarding of messages that arrive to your temporary email service on your current mailbox.
Experienced users of dating sites is recommended to keep your phone number secret, at least for the first time your rendezvous. It is easy to succumb to the charm of a new relationship, but what if you want to abort them? Set yourself a free account on the popular communication service Skype, and then create an anonymous account name, such as "JaneX". Be sure to have very many people have experienced unpleasant emotions after a breakup, as their "former" did not want to leave them alone. When you meet someone at a restaurant, movie theater, or in an online chat room, try not to forget about it. This may not sound very romantic, but that's life.
How to behave on a first date?
When you decide to organize a meeting in real life, you are the best choice for the first time rather crowded place, with good transport access, so you can quickly and easily come back and go from there. If it is permissible, take a trusted friend who will accompany you. Just in targer of hedging, tell your friends and family, time, place and purpose of your trip, as well as the time when you are going to go home. All these precautions may seem excessive, but believe me, they are the real implications. Criminals and crooks, which is full of modern society, using the Internet and especially dating sites to find their victims. They are looking for people who may seem weak and gullible. You should not feel a victim. To appoint its first meeting in a shopping mall or restaurant, it would be very appropriate. If possible, arrange a meeting during the afternoon rather than evening. If you feel that events are not in your script, politely interrupt the meeting.
Try to eat only soft drinks on a first date. Alcohol does not make anyone better than he really is, and can blunt your sense of vigilance. If you communicate with someone for the first time, order drinks very carefully, do not drink strange alcohol and always order the fresh glass, if you for some reason they left the table.
For those dates, which should take place away from your home, you should take extra precautions. Book a place at the hotel and do not agree to spend the night somewhere else. Do not settle for something that you met at the airport, try to secure your own transportation.
Be happy with your dating
All of the above security measures should not disappoint you - a lot more people have found happiness in the Internet, rather than disappointed. Those people who are looking for a serious relationship, would also be careful as you, so you will understand each other.
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